One's Personality

our attitude towards lyf determines lyfs attitude towards us.mañy of us thinks that compassion drains us, but I promise u it is something that truly enlivens us.lyf is so ironic, it takes sadness to know what happiness is, noise to appreciate silence & absence to value presence. An attitude of positive expectation is the mark is superior personality. I've trained myself to illuminate the things in my personality that are likable and to hide and protect the things that are less likeable.There is nothing more attractive than a great positive personality. Its beauty never fades away with time.  Personality is in the very intention of the evolution of life, and the human personality is just one mode in which this intention is realized. Ur personality should be impenetrable even to ourselves.   When people label you by saying that you have attitude.Just tell them that you have a personality which is unshakable and unaffected by what people say about you.  Personality is a mask you believe in. The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.never let yourself be a product of your , surroundings but encourage your surroundings to be a product of your personality. Train your mind to see gud in everything. positively is a choice.The happiness of your lyf depend on the quality of your thoughts.U must make the choice, to take the chance, if u want anything in lyf to change. light yourself on fire with passion & people will come from miles to watch u  burn.No matter how educated, rich , talented, or cool u believe u are , how to treate people ultimately tells all. Cutting people from your lyf doesn't mean you hate them , it simply means that u respect yourself. Imagine a new story of your lyf & start living it.My personality is who I'm, & my attitude depend on how u treate me.😊

Be Selfish

One of the greatest challenges in lyf is being yourself in a world that's trying to make you like everyone else.The hard thing is, you try to help them but still you're the bad one.It is during the worst times of your lyf that u will get to see the true colours of the people who say they care for u. Take tym to give.....it is , too short a day to be selfish. Be careful who u shares your weakness with . some people can't wait for the opportunity to use them against u. Learn to carry yourself on your own back. people will drop u quicker than they picked u up. sometimes u have to be selfish & just make yourself happy😊. By all means be selfish : the right way , wish yourself well , labour at what is gud for u. destroy all that stands between u & happiness .be all;love all;be happy;make happy.sometimes u don't realize u are actually drowning when u try to be everyone else anchor. I used to think that being selfish was bad, but sometimes u care so much for others that u forget about yourself.Make yourself a priority once in a while , it's not selfish it's necessary.Have some ego bcoz people with no ego will be treated merely like fools.If u have the power to make someone happy today , do it . the world needs more of them. u either get better or u get bitter . it's simple. u either take what has been dealt to u & allow it to make u a better person or u allow it  to tear u down . the choice doesn't belongs to fate , it belongs to u. loving yourself doesn't mean being self absorbed or disregarding others rather than it means welcoming yourself as the most common guest in your own heart, a guest worthy of respect , a lovable companion. plz do yourself a favour. don't lower your standards to fit in. don't shrink who u are to make others comfortable. do find and surround yourself with the people who like u just the way u are & encourage u to keep remember that one day u will stand up for yourself & raise the standard of your lyf, that one day u will say to yourself -"enough with this bullshit ".U might as well make today that day.😊 

Life Is A matter Of Perspective

Lyf is matter of perspective.There are many people who may know you,but there are very few people who understand who you are.The greatest bliss is being able to sit alone & be completely at peace. needing no-one, needing nothing.lyf is a book.some chapters are sad, some chapters are happy & some are exciting.but if u never turn the page you'll never know what the next chapter holds. people don't appreciate you or know your value until you're gone.stop expecting loyalty from the people who can't even give u honesty.be a gud person,but don't waste your time trying to prove heavy hearts like heavy cloud in sky are best relieved by the letting of a little Always remember that you are  braver than you believe,and stronger than you seem, & smarter than you think.Be with those who tries to bring best in you,not the stress in people will always notice the change in your attitude towards  but theyll never notice it's their behaviour that made you change. The worst feeling ever is when you're crying in silence bcoz  u don't want anyone to know u are. Never regret being a gud person, to the wrong people, your behaviour says everything about u & their behaviour says enough about them.When everything seems to be going against you , remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it. Don't feel low when someone double your caliber.just be proud of yourself bcoz people always doubt the 'gold' for it's purity not the 'iron'.

A Meaningful Silence

Silence is a true friend who never betrays. Don't underestimate me . I know more that I say, think more than I speak & notice more than you realise sometimes I want to treat people how they treat me but I can't bcoz it's not my character.just bcoz I don't say anything doesn't mean that I don't know what's going on.. my silence is my self defence.i don't think I'm bad .if you talk to people who know me, you don't hear bad things.have I made mistakes ? sure, but I venture to say most people have. I'm sincerely sorry about them. & I try to fix them. that's lyf.😊

Every hearts sing a song , late at night. some dares to write while some bleed through their eyes. I don't know who am I,but when tears in my eyes I know I'm still alive to write. what is burning me inside. Don't judge my story by the chapters you walk in on.you don't know me !!! you only know what I want you to know.sometimes the best you can do is just remain silent bcoz no words can explain the battle that's going on in your heart & mind.My silence doesn't always means YES sometimes it's mean - I'm tired of explaining myself to people who don't even care to understand.I'm thankful for difficult people in my lyf for they have shown me exactly who I don't want to be.one day you'll look back & realise that you worried too much about things that don't really matters.some people think I'm unhappy but I'm not. I just appreciate silence in the world that never stops talking.silence isn't empty it's full of answers  in end I wish to say that - 

Never let a bad situation brings out the worst in you . choose to stay positive.& be the strong person that God created you to be ! 😇😇😇

Tired Of Explaining Myself

The most difficult phrase of lyf is not when no one understands you, it's when you don't understand yourself. Don't be confused between what people say you are & who you know you sometimes you just need to distance yourself to see more clearly.Be yourself no matter what, someone will adore you & some will hate everything about you. 😇 but who cares ? it's your lyf.Make the most out of it.you gotta a train your mind your mind to be stronger than your emotions or else you'll loose yourself everytime.Not caring what other people think is the best choice you will ever Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.i stop explaining myself when I realised that people understand from their level of perception. Never explain yourself to anyone. Sometimes you just need  distance yourself from people if they care they will notice, if they don't you know where you stand.If you wanted to be respected start with yourself.

So here are three reasons you should stop explaining yourself. You are basing your self-worth on others' evaluations. Trying to convince others that what you are doing is worthy is like trying to recruit a cheering squad. Your actions don't need a pep rall.

“If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed.” “Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.” “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”

Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone🥰 In end , I want to say that stop explaining yourself, start expressing yourself; people will not only understand what you can do but also believe in you who you are.you owe no one any explanation of what you do .

👉🏻 your lyf is yours not theirs .👈🏻

Self Love

Best way to live your life is to love & respect yourself first🥰 To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. To love yourself is to know that your post doesn't change your worth. Don't waste words on the people who deserve your silence. sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all, Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we'll ever do.

Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.

Be yourself. ...

You can't pour from an empty cup.

One day i woke up and realised I was not made for anyone, I was made for me. I am my own.

More items...You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.

Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.

I am accepting myself unconditionally no matter what. When I accept myself just as I am, i am freed from the burden of needing you accept me. No one is you and that is your power. Regardless of how anyone else feels about me, I am going to choos. My frndz start loving yourself & keep smiling, bcoz lyf is a beautiful thing & there's so much to smile about.😊

value of SMILE

our smiles worth a lot. if u sees a person without a smile then give one of yours 😊lyf is short my frndz so enjoy every moment of your life 😇. Stop wasting your tym on the people in whose lyf u matters nothing. Don't make your smile a limited edition for u. Be happy whatever u have. Never regret for anything in your life my dear frndz as we all have heard "something is better than nothing"😊