Stop Being Too Nice

In today's world it's necessary to put yourself first than anyone else. Don't just be good to others.be good to yourself too.Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behaviour decides who stays in your life. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters  to you. 

I have learned that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings. even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't guarantee that others will be good people too. you only have control over yourself on how you choose to be as person.And for the others ,  you can be only choose to accept them or walk away.Sometimes I regret being nice , apologizing when didn't do anything wrong , and for making unworthy people a priority in my life.😔.Sometimes you have to do what's better for you and your life, and not what's best  for everybody else. According to the Power of Positivity, when you are being too nice to others, you develop unrealistic expectations for them to do the same. When they do not meet these expectations, you may become angry and resentful. I have noticed this in my own life.Nothing is too great or too good to be true. Do not believe that we can imagine things better than they are. In the long run, in the ultimate outlook, in the eye of the Creator, the possibilities of existence, the possibilities open to us, are beyond our imagination. Sometimes you have to suffer in life, not because you were bad , but  because you didn't realize where or when to stop being good. Everything in your life is a reflection of a choice you have made. if you want a different result make a different choice.

Thus, don't take anyone's ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be.Don't depend too much on anyone in this world. even your shadow leaves you when you are in the darkness.☺️🤞🏻