Thursday, October 29, 2020

Patience Is The Companion Of Wisdom

Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.One minute of patience, ten years of peace.With love and patience, nothing is impossible. Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. Inner peace is impossible without patience. wisdom requires patience. spiritual growth implies the mastery of patience. patience  allows the unfolding of destiny to proceed at it's won unhurried pace. We must understand how to be patient in the midst of hard circumstances, and can continue to be personally effective while living through whatever discouragements beset us and our companion. Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Don't Loos courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about redemying them - everyday begin the task anew. Be patient, things are charging for better though it doesn't feel that way. Sometimes what a person needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks, but patient heart that listens Most of us think that patience is a sign of weakness, I think this is a mistake. It is anger that is a sign of weakness, where patience is a sign of strength. Remember that patience and silence are the two powerful energies. patience makes you mentally strong, silence makes you emotionally strong. learning patience can be a difficult experience, but once conquered you will find life easier. sometimes when I'm quite it's because I need to fingure myself out. It's not because I don't want to talk. sometimes there are no words for my thoughts. I don't regret the things I have done. I regret the things I didn't do when I had a chance. you can't expect miracles to happen overnight. Be patient, be loving and little by little the change you seek will come. Sometimes the prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets and the kindest heart have felt the most pain. One moment of patience may ward off great disaster whereas one moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.Patience is a calm acceptance and one of the hardest things in life to learn are which bridges to cross and which bridges to burn. learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had. Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in low time. Never makes your most important decisions when you are in worst moods. Wait - Be patient. The storm will pass and the spring will come!!!🥰

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Thursday, October 22, 2020

Spirituality: True Self Respect Brings Inner Peace. ...

Self respect comes from  being able to define the world in your own terms and refusing  to abide by the judgements of others. To free ourselves from the expectations of others , to give us back to ourselves there lies the great , the singular power of self respect. Know your worth, know when you have had enough and move on from the people who keep chipping away at your happiness. To love yourself right from now, just as you are , is to give yourself heaven. Don't wait until you die. If you wait you die now , if you love, you live now. Don't ever dumb yourself down just to make someone else feel comfortable. Keep a little bit of attitude in your pocket. Don't use it to hurt others but use it when your self respect is being tested by other person.  Try not to take the things personally; what people say about you is a reflection of them, not yours. The way you treat yourself sets the standards for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect. The moment you start going out of your way to beg someone for their attention, you devalue your self worth. Don't let your loyalty become slavery.know when you let go and never compromise on self respect. Remember, life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. If someone treates you like an option, leave them like a choice. Having self-respect helps others to see and treat you with dignity and worth. Often the backbone of self-respect is knowing your values and living by them. Having self-respect often means that you need to stand by your character and be willing to defend your values and actions. One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself. If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect you will compel others to respect you.😊

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Sunday, October 18, 2020

Stop Being Too Nice

In today's world it's necessary to put yourself first than anyone else. Don't just be good to others.be good to yourself too.Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behaviour decides who stays in your life. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters  to you. 
I have learned that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings. even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't guarantee that others will be good people too. you only have control over yourself on how you choose to be as person.And for the others ,  you can be only choose to accept them or walk away.Sometimes I regret being nice , apologizing when didn't do anything wrong , and for making unworthy people a priority in my life.😔.Sometimes you have to do what's better for you and your life, and not what's best  for everybody else. According to the Power of Positivity, when you are being too nice to others, you develop unrealistic expectations for them to do the same. When they do not meet these expectations, you may become angry and resentful. I have noticed this in my own life.Nothing is too great or too good to be true. Do not believe that we can imagine things better than they are. In the long run, in the ultimate outlook, in the eye of the Creator, the possibilities of existence, the possibilities open to us, are beyond our imagination. Sometimes you have to suffer in life, not because you were bad , but  because you didn't realize where or when to stop being good. Everything in your life is a reflection of a choice you have made. if you want a different result make a different choice.
Thus, don't take anyone's ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be.Don't depend too much on anyone in this world. even your shadow leaves you when you are in the darkness.☺️🤞🏻

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Tuesday, October 13, 2020

Life Is A Game


Life is a game, where either you lose or you learn. It gives us many opportunities and we should make a perfect utilisation of it. The two most important days in our life are the day we born  and the day we find out why. If  you really want to do something. you'll find a way. If you don't you'll find an excuse. Sometimes we are so busy doubting ourselves. while so many others are intimidated by our potential. you will never be criticized by a person who is doing more than you. You'll only be criticized by someone who is doing less. It's necessary to draw your attention towards challenges, because it's make life interesting and  overcoming them is what makes life meaningful. Don't be too honest in the world, because straight trees are always choosen for cutting!!! . Don't get upset with the people or situations as both are powerless without our reactions. In life it's important to know when to stop arguing with people and simply let them be wrong. I neither paint my dreams nor my nightmares.I just paint my own reality. Remember that it's very easy to defeat someone but it's very difficult to win someone. Never change your originality for the sake of others, because no one can play your role better than you. There are no limits what you can accomplish, except the limits you place on your own thinking. Don't sacrifice your peace pointing out someone's true colour as  lack of character always reveals itself in the end. Sometimes you just have to die a little inside in order to be reborn and rise again as a stronger and wiser version of you. Don't ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday.Let it go. Learn to trust the journey, even when you don't understand it. when life gives you a hundred reasons to break down and cry, show life that you have a million reasons to smile and laugh. Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. ...If life were predictable it would cease to be life, and be without flavor.so, encourage yourself to overcome and accept the challenges in your life.😊

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Thursday, October 08, 2020

Distance yourself from sadness

One of the most courageous decision u will  ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart & soul. sometimes u need to be alone.not to be lonely but , to enjoy your free tym being u & yourself. when u feel worried & depressed, consciously form a smile on your face & act upbeat until the happy feeling becomes genuine.as the light begins to intensify, so does my misery & I wonder how it is possible to hurt so much when nothing is wrong. sometimes lyf doesn't gives u something u want, not bcoz u don't deserve it , but bcoz u deserve more. when we are ready to make positive changes in our lives, we attract whatever we need to help us.we must understand that sadness is an ocean, sometimes we drown , while other days we are forced to swim. Sadness often leads to depression but happiness leads to increase in the  life expectancy.we have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what u got & remember what u had . Always forgive but never forget, learn from your mistakes but never regret. Always remember that it's better to forget & smile than to remember & be sad . It's ironic, how we offen the things worth remembering, but remember the things worth forgetting. The best feeling of happiness is when u are happy bcoz u have made somebody else happy😊. Usually beautiful things happen only when u distance yourself from the negative. Doing what u like is freedom & liking what u do is happiness. Two possibilities exist ; either we are alone in the universe or we are not. both are equally terrifying. It's better to live your lyf in your own way.  In the end, people will judge u anyway . Don't live your lyf impressing others, live your life impressing yourself.🥰🥰🥰

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Monday, October 05, 2020

Always Take A Stand Up For Yourself

Thinking for yourself & making your own decisions can be frightening. Letting go of other people’s expectations can leave u feeling empty for a tym. & yet seeing yourself as an independent adult who can stand up for your own choices frees you to accept yourself as you are. Formal education teaches how to stand, but to see the rainbow you must come out and walk many steps on your own. Remember that always take a stand for yourself, your values. you're defined by what u stand for. It's easy to stand with the crowd but it takes courage to stand alone. If u want light to come into your lyf , u need to stand where it is shining.All u can change is yourself, but sometimes that changes everything! If u don't go after what u won't, ull never have it.if u don't ask, the answer is always no if u don't step forward , u are always on the same place.I not only have the right to stand up for myself, but I have responsibility.i can't ask somebody else to stand up for me if I won't stand up for myself & once u stand up for yourself, you'd be surprised that people say, 'can I be of help' ? strong people stand up for themselves  but stronger people stand up for others. The moment that u start to wonder  if u deserve better, u do. U need to learn to stand up for yourself & what u believe . Being able to admit u are wrong is important but so is standing up for yourself when u are right. sometimes u just need to disconnect & enjoy your own company. Stand for what is right even it means standing alone. when u are Wong, admit it but when u are right , be quite.never search your happiness in others, it will make u feel alone. search in yourself u will feel happy even if u are left alone 😊

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