A Journey – “unfolding step by step”.
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No matter what people tell you, words and ideas can change the world��
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No matter how fierce the storm feels today, remember this: clouds move, rain stops, and the sun always returns. 🌦️
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Frustration originates from feelings of uncertainty and insecurity which stems from a sense of inability to fulfill needs. Frustration is a sign I am acting independently. The more you try your own way, the tighter the doors will stay close. Talking with someone you trust. Talking may help you become more clear about what you are feeling.
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Keep taking time for yourself until you are you again.To recognize yourself in a character On-screen and to connect with them, you gotta recognize their flaws they gotta feel like a real person. It was so easy to disown what you couldn't recognize, to keep yourself apart from the things that were foreign and unsettling. The only person you can be sure you control always is yourself. Which is a lot to be sure of, but at the same time time not enough. Being strong doesn't always mean you have to fight the battle. True strength is being adult enough to walk away from the nonsense with your head held high. Usually stress happens when you try to control your life experiences. Relax and remember the only real control you have is over yourself. If you compare yourself to others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there be a greater and lesser persons than yourself. Your mind can never allow self acceptance, since it is by nature self contradictory and divisive. The best revenge is to have enough self worth not to seek it. The biggest source of motivation are your own thoughts, so think big and motivate yourself to win. You have been criticizing yourself for years, try to approve yourself and see what happens. I hope you love yourself enough to recognise the things you don't like about your life and i hope you find the courage to change them. Just live your purpose, express your truth, share your love. Enjoy your dreams, walk your talk, cherrish your blessings and make today the best day of your life so far. Breathe..let go and remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure...☺️🤞🏻
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The moment you started appreciating yourself will be the moment when this universe will fall in love with you. Beauty begins with the moment you decided to be yourself. The trick is that as long as you know who you are and what makes you happy it doesn't matter how others see you. It's not always a matter of letting go, instead of this one must say, 'let it be'. Be proud of every step you take, don't wait until you reach your goal .No matter how it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggles changed your life for the better. Take the responsibility of your own happiness, never put it in others people hands. when you accept responsibility for everything in your life, you gain the power to change anything in your life. Some people will always distract you, judge you and criticize you let them do their work as no matter what you do, people will always talk about you, someone will always question your judgement, someone will always doubt you. so just smile and make the choices you can live with. surround yourself with tacos not with negativity. The power to change your life lies in the simplest of steps. when you stop loving your life based on what others think of your real life begins at that moment, you will finally see the door of self acceptance opened.The biitter truth is that not everyone will appreciate for what you do for them. you have to figure out who is worthing your kindness and who is just taking the advantage. sometimes you just have to appreciate where you are. you have come a long way and you are still learning and growing. Be proud of yourself.☺️
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Learning to ignore things is one of the great paths🛤️ to inner peace🕊️. To find 🔍peace sometimes you have to be willing to use your connection🔗 with the people, place and things that create all the noise🔊 in your life.Be selective with your battles. sometimes peace is better than being right. One of the most important and rewarding🎖️ moments in life is the moment you finally find the courage to let go of what you can't change. Use disappointment and frustration😤 to motivate you rather than annoy💢 you. Be mindful you are in control of the way you to respond to life. Train your mind🧠 to see 👀good in everything. positivity is a choice. The happiness😊 of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts💭. The problem is not the problem. The problem is the incredible amount of overthinking you're doing with the problem. Let it go and be free. Do your best, then adopt a"whatever happens, happens" mindset . Don't try to force things. just let go and allow the right blessings😇 to flow. Rather than ignorance sometimes forgiveness is also important. It takes a strong 💪person to say sorry and even stronger person to forgive. Remember, Not every sorry deserves an ' it's okay ' in return. Life had taught many lessons to me but I don't feel sad now. I realised that some people will never understands me , my decisions. Everything is not in my hands. And now I assume every situation as a challenge and opportunity in my life.Now, I don't care what people think about me as I can't stop them from thinking. This time⏰I learn to ignore the things, as in actuality life becomes more lighter☄️ than you actually wanted it.
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Everyone has two eyes👀 but no one has a same view ! The eyes are useless when the mind🧠 is blind. your eyes speak the truth when everything else is a lie. Always learn to see the truth from your own eyes never believe anything someone else tells you. The prettiest smile☺️hide the deepiest secrets. The prettiest eyes👀 have cried the most tears.😭 And the kindest hearts❤️ have felt the most pain.😫 Sometimes, crying is the only way your eyes speak when your mouth can't explain how broken your heart💔 is. If you never heal from what hurt you, then you will bleed on people who didn't cut you. Give yourself the time⏳from the challenge you have been dealt. It's all in the eyes, I was once told A smile isn't genuine unless the eyes smiles too, and words mean nothing unless the eyes speak them too. perhaps, our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in awhile, so that we can see the life with a clearer view again. Real tears are not those that fall from the eyes and cover the face but those that fall from heart and cover the sóul💗. Remember, the soul would have no rainbow🌈if the eyes has no tears.when our heart can't handle too much pain it turns into tears. The saddest😔 thing in life is that when when you are feeling real down you look around and realize that there is no shoulder for you. If you hear people from my past speak of me. keep in mind that they are speaking of a person they don't even know anymore. I can't cry anymore I feel the need but the tears don't come. I spent too much time telling myself not to be weak😟and now I'm too hard. Never apologize for saying what you feel. That's like saying sorry for being real...
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our behaviour and attitude😎 towards life usually justify our character. Thoughts💭 become words📖,words become actions🎬, actions become habits😊, habits become our character🎭 and our character becomes our destiny📈.You express the truth of your character with the choice of your actions🎬. The world 🌍is changed by your example not by your opinion. Your character will be what yóu yourself choose to make it. You are the main character in your story📖, remember this. you are the architect of your own happiness😊, everyone else is simply a visitors. Surely my life is an open book📓 , but don't judge me my syllabus , first read📨 my whole character to make a judgement. Stop✋judging people's character.you don't know what it took someone to get out of bed🛌, look and feel 💟presentable as possible and face the day⛅. you never truly know the daily struggles of others. Reminisce that real richness🤑is when you are so expensive that no one can buy🛒your character. It's your thoughts and character makes you complete not any person or thing. Your knowledge will give you power 🔋but your character will give you respect🙂. Never judge someone's character based on the words of another. Instead study the motives behind the words of person casting bad judgements. Accordingly thinking is difficult that's why most people judge.The secret is to reserve judgment and take your time⏲️. Observe them in certain situations; look at how they react. Listen👂to them talking🗣️, joking🤣, laughing😆, explaining🤷♂️, complaining👭, blaming👫, praising🙌, ranting😤, and preaching🕍. Only then will you be able to judge their character. Your character is formed by the challenges you face and overcome. It takes a long time to built a good character but takes a second to ruin it. Live in such a way that if someone spoke badly of you no one would believe it. !!!☺️
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Ego is to the true self what a flashlight is to a spotlight.Your ego is your soul’s💗 worst enemy.One study 📓found that healthy doses of ego directly feed into your willpower, which means, it might help you stick to a diet or focus on a major project, for example. An ego can also help you stay resilient when things go wrong❎. When deployed properly, an ego can also help us grow. Never blame yourself for other's people ego. In reality human beings have ego of their knowledge but they don't have knowledge of their ego. Now, Paying attention towards the difference between attitude and ego. our attitude makes us different from others while our ego makes us alone from others. when you allow your ego to control your thoughts, everything you believe becomes an illusion. Explain your anger😠, don't express it and you will immediately open the door🚪 to solutions instead of arguments. Never try to dominate the one who says sorry to you for their mistakes because, they understand that you are important than their ego.After realizing many things in my life I understand that I have no time⏱️ to battle egos and small minds🧠. Shoes👞 and people🎎, if they hurt 😔you, they are not of your size. When you notice your ego creating drama, ask yourself what am I avoiding in this moment. Our ego in sucess should never go to brain 🤯 and depression in failure should never go to heart❤️. True intelligence isn't controlled by ego. you must be able to change your mind when presented with information📝 that contradicts your beliefs. Remember that ego never accepts truth. Now this is what an ego is. This is with me also, I don't respect those who don't respect me. you call it my ego but I call it my self respect. our ego can neither satisfied us nor make us happy☺️ and successful in life. Most of the times, ego is responsible for destroying any relationship. So, keep your 'e ' asíde and let it ' go '. Moving towards ego can be resulted in extirpate.
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The greatest thing in the world 🌍is to know how to belong to oneself. The best day⛅ of your life is the one you which decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses . Noone to lean on, rely on, or blame. you alone are responsible for the quality of it. Increase Your Self-Esteem. Sometimes becoming more self-sufficient means you need to look deep inside yourself. we must learn to be more assertive. But seriously I don't know why in today's world people are not satisfied with whatever they have ? why they are not making themselves self sufficient ?
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Music has the power to express our feelings when we are sad😔 or happy😊.Lyrics of every song🎵 have a direct connection with our heart❤️and soul💗. You love your favorite song because it’s associated with an intense emotional experience in your life. Have you ever wondered about the story behind a song? Write about it. Choose a song that intrigues you, listen to it, and dig into the lyrics🎼. Who are the characters behind those lyrics? What’s their situation? What challenges are they facing? Don’t try to recreate the song in prose; try to imagine the people 👥and circumstances behind it. Music itself have a magic🎩 to take your mind 🧠off everything. We all hear music but in reality few of us can feel it. Music is what feelings sound🔊 like. For me, music is an ideology not something that comforts or distracts me. Music can heal my wounds that medicine cannot touch. For me, it's a magic key🗝️ to which the most tightly closed heart ❤️opens. Usually I motivate myself through music🎶by listening to uplifting track and songs about success and I can't help but want to work harder. The power of music makes all the differenceto me with inspiration and motivation throughout the day. It gives soul to universe♻️,wings to mind👼, flight to imagination✈️ and life to everything 🥰.you have to risk going too far to discover just how far you can really go same as you want to understand it's lyrics deeply and imagine what the next line is. Music expresses that which can't be said and which it is impossible to be silent🤐
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Self-doubt occurs when we lack confidence or feel incapable of doing things we need to do. People who doubt about themselves experience uncertainty around things they can't control or worry about things not going according to plan.How many of you have doubted yourself at the smallest things in life. How many of you have really felt low as per the societies standard. I'm sure many of us.And do you know what, there are few people who goes through these situations on their daily basis. we all have same time but our situations are different. Acknowledge it. Admit that self-doubt is what's going on, so that you can deal with it head-on. ...
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Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.One minute of patience, ten years of peace.With love and patience, nothing is impossible. Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. Inner peace is impossible without patience. wisdom requires patience. spiritual growth implies the mastery of patience. patience allows the unfolding of destiny to proceed at it's won unhurried pace. We must understand how to be patient in the midst of hard circumstances, and can continue to be personally effective while living through whatever discouragements beset us and our companion. Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Don't Loos courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about redemying them - everyday begin the task anew. Be patient, things are charging for better though it doesn't feel that way. Sometimes what a person needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks, but patient heart that listens Most of us think that patience is a sign of weakness, I think this is a mistake. It is anger that is a sign of weakness, where patience is a sign of strength. Remember that patience and silence are the two powerful energies. patience makes you mentally strong, silence makes you emotionally strong. learning patience can be a difficult experience, but once conquered you will find life easier. sometimes when I'm quite it's because I need to fingure myself out. It's not because I don't want to talk. sometimes there are no words for my thoughts. I don't regret the things I have done. I regret the things I didn't do when I had a chance. you can't expect miracles to happen overnight. Be patient, be loving and little by little the change you seek will come. Sometimes the prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets and the kindest heart have felt the most pain. One moment of patience may ward off great disaster whereas one moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.Patience is a calm acceptance and one of the hardest things in life to learn are which bridges to cross and which bridges to burn. learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had. Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in low time. Never makes your most important decisions when you are in worst moods. Wait - Be patient. The storm will pass and the spring will come!!!🥰
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Self respect comes from being able to define the world in your own terms and refusing to abide by the judgements of others. To free ourselves from the expectations of others , to give us back to ourselves there lies the great , the singular power of self respect. Know your worth, know when you have had enough and move on from the people who keep chipping away at your happiness. To love yourself right from now, just as you are , is to give yourself heaven. Don't wait until you die. If you wait you die now , if you love, you live now. Don't ever dumb yourself down just to make someone else feel comfortable. Keep a little bit of attitude in your pocket. Don't use it to hurt others but use it when your self respect is being tested by other person. Try not to take the things personally; what people say about you is a reflection of them, not yours. The way you treat yourself sets the standards for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect. The moment you start going out of your way to beg someone for their attention, you devalue your self worth. Don't let your loyalty become slavery.know when you let go and never compromise on self respect. Remember, life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. If someone treates you like an option, leave them like a choice. Having self-respect helps others to see and treat you with dignity and worth. Often the backbone of self-respect is knowing your values and living by them. Having self-respect often means that you need to stand by your character and be willing to defend your values and actions. One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself. If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect you will compel others to respect you.😊
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In today's world it's necessary to put yourself first than anyone else. Don't just be good to others.be good to yourself too.Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behaviour decides who stays in your life. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
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One of the most courageous decision u will ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart & soul. sometimes u need to be alone.not to be lonely but , to enjoy your free tym being u & yourself. when u feel worried & depressed, consciously form a smile on your face & act upbeat until the happy feeling becomes genuine.as the light begins to intensify, so does my misery & I wonder how it is possible to hurt so much when nothing is wrong. sometimes lyf doesn't gives u something u want, not bcoz u don't deserve it , but bcoz u deserve more. when we are ready to make positive changes in our lives, we attract whatever we need to help us.we must understand that sadness is an ocean, sometimes we drown , while other days we are forced to swim. Sadness often leads to depression but happiness leads to increase in the life expectancy.we have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what u got & remember what u had . Always forgive but never forget, learn from your mistakes but never regret. Always remember that it's better to forget & smile than to remember & be sad . It's ironic, how we offen the things worth remembering, but remember the things worth forgetting. The best feeling of happiness is when u are happy bcoz u have made somebody else happy😊. Usually beautiful things happen only when u distance yourself from the negative. Doing what u like is freedom & liking what u do is happiness. Two possibilities exist ; either we are alone in the universe or we are not. both are equally terrifying. It's better to live your lyf in your own way. In the end, people will judge u anyway . Don't live your lyf impressing others, live your life impressing yourself.🥰🥰🥰
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Thinking for yourself & making your own decisions can be frightening. Letting go of other people’s expectations can leave u feeling empty for a tym. & yet seeing yourself as an independent adult who can stand up for your own choices frees you to accept yourself as you are. Formal education teaches how to stand, but to see the rainbow you must come out and walk many steps on your own. Remember that always take a stand for yourself, your values. you're defined by what u stand for. It's easy to stand with the crowd but it takes courage to stand alone. If u want light to come into your lyf , u need to stand where it is shining.All u can change is yourself, but sometimes that changes everything! If u don't go after what u won't, ull never have it.if u don't ask, the answer is always no if u don't step forward , u are always on the same place.I not only have the right to stand up for myself, but I have responsibility.i can't ask somebody else to stand up for me if I won't stand up for myself & once u stand up for yourself, you'd be surprised that people say, 'can I be of help' ? strong people stand up for themselves but stronger people stand up for others. The moment that u start to wonder if u deserve better, u do. U need to learn to stand up for yourself & what u believe . Being able to admit u are wrong is important but so is standing up for yourself when u are right. sometimes u just need to disconnect & enjoy your own company. Stand for what is right even it means standing alone. when u are Wong, admit it but when u are right , be quite.never search your happiness in others, it will make u feel alone. search in yourself u will feel happy even if u are left alone 😊
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our attitude towards lyf determines lyfs attitude towards us.mañy of us thinks that compassion drains us, but I promise u it is something that truly enlivens us.lyf is so ironic, it takes sadness to know what happiness is, noise to appreciate silence & absence to value presence. An attitude of positive expectation is the mark is superior personality. I've trained myself to illuminate the things in my personality that are likable and to hide and protect the things that are less likeable.There is nothing more attractive than a great positive personality. Its beauty never fades away with time. Personality is in the very intention of the evolution of life, and the human personality is just one mode in which this intention is realized. Ur personality should be impenetrable even to ourselves. When people label you by saying that you have attitude.Just tell them that you have a personality which is unshakable and unaffected by what people say about you. Personality is a mask you believe in. The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.never let yourself be a product of your , surroundings but encourage your surroundings to be a product of your personality. Train your mind to see gud in everything. positively is a choice.The happiness of your lyf depend on the quality of your thoughts.U must make the choice, to take the chance, if u want anything in lyf to change. light yourself on fire with passion & people will come from miles to watch u burn.No matter how educated, rich , talented, or cool u believe u are , how to treate people ultimately tells all. Cutting people from your lyf doesn't mean you hate them , it simply means that u respect yourself. Imagine a new story of your lyf & start living it.My personality is who I'm, & my attitude depend on how u treate me.😊
One of the greatest challenges in lyf is being yourself in a world that's trying to make you like everyone else.The hard thing is, you try to help them but still you're the bad one.It is during the worst times of your lyf that u will get to see the true colours of the people who say they care for u. Take tym to give.....it is , too short a day to be selfish. Be careful who u shares your weakness with . some people can't wait for the opportunity to use them against u. Learn to carry yourself on your own back. people will drop u quicker than they picked u up. sometimes u have to be selfish & just make yourself happy😊. By all means be selfish : the right way , wish yourself well , labour at what is gud for u. destroy all that stands between u & happiness .be all;love all;be happy;make happy.sometimes u don't realize u are actually drowning when u try to be everyone else anchor. I used to think that being selfish was bad, but sometimes u care so much for others that u forget about yourself.Make yourself a priority once in a while , it's not selfish it's necessary.Have some ego bcoz people with no ego will be treated merely like fools.If u have the power to make someone happy today , do it . the world needs more of them. u either get better or u get bitter . it's simple. u either take what has been dealt to u & allow it to make u a better person or u allow it to tear u down . the choice doesn't belongs to fate , it belongs to u. loving yourself doesn't mean being self absorbed or disregarding others rather than it means welcoming yourself as the most common guest in your own heart, a guest worthy of respect , a lovable companion. plz do yourself a favour. don't lower your standards to fit in. don't shrink who u are to make others comfortable. do find and surround yourself with the people who like u just the way u are & encourage u to keep remember that one day u will stand up for yourself & raise the standard of your lyf, that one day u will say to yourself -"enough with this bullshit ".U might as well make today that day.😊
Lyf is matter of perspective.There are many people who may know you,but there are very few people who understand who you are.The greatest bliss is being able to sit alone & be completely at peace. needing no-one, needing nothing.lyf is a book.some chapters are sad, some chapters are happy & some are exciting.but if u never turn the page you'll never know what the next chapter holds. people don't appreciate you or know your value until you're gone.stop expecting loyalty from the people who can't even give u honesty.be a gud person,but don't waste your time trying to prove heavy hearts like heavy cloud in sky are best relieved by the letting of a little Always remember that you are braver than you believe,and stronger than you seem, & smarter than you think.Be with those who tries to bring best in you,not the stress in people will always notice the change in your attitude towards but theyll never notice it's their behaviour that made you change. The worst feeling ever is when you're crying in silence bcoz u don't want anyone to know u are. Never regret being a gud person, to the wrong people, your behaviour says everything about u & their behaviour says enough about them.When everything seems to be going against you , remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it. Don't feel low when someone double your caliber.just be proud of yourself bcoz people always doubt the 'gold' for it's purity not the 'iron'.
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Silence is a true friend who never betrays. Don't underestimate me . I know more that I say, think more than I speak & notice more than you realise sometimes I want to treat people how they treat me but I can't bcoz it's not my character.just bcoz I don't say anything doesn't mean that I don't know what's going on.. my silence is my self defence.i don't think I'm bad .if you talk to people who know me, you don't hear bad things.have I made mistakes ? sure, but I venture to say most people have. I'm sincerely sorry about them. & I try to fix them. that's lyf.😊
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The most difficult phrase of lyf is not when no one understands you, it's when you don't understand yourself. Don't be confused between what people say you are & who you know you sometimes you just need to distance yourself to see more clearly.Be yourself no matter what, someone will adore you & some will hate everything about you. 😇 but who cares ? it's your lyf.Make the most out of it.you gotta a train your mind your mind to be stronger than your emotions or else you'll loose yourself everytime.Not caring what other people think is the best choice you will ever Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.i stop explaining myself when I realised that people understand from their level of perception. Never explain yourself to anyone. Sometimes you just need distance yourself from people if they care they will notice, if they don't you know where you stand.If you wanted to be respected start with yourself.
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Best way to live your life is to love & respect yourself first🥰 To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. To love yourself is to know that your post doesn't change your worth. Don't waste words on the people who deserve your silence. sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all, Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.
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our smiles worth a lot. if u sees a person without a smile then give one of yours 😊lyf is short my frndz so enjoy every moment of your life 😇. Stop wasting your tym on the people in whose lyf u matters nothing. Don't make your smile a limited edition for u. Be happy whatever u have. Never regret for anything in your life my dear frndz as we all have heard "something is better than nothing"😊
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