Expectation Feeds Frustration

 Frustration originates from feelings of uncertainty and insecurity which stems from a sense of inability to fulfill needs. Frustration is a sign I am acting independently. The more you try your own way, the tighter the doors will stay close. Talking with someone you trust. Talking may help you become more clear about what you are feeling.

Talking out loud to yourself. ... 

Writing about your feelings. ... 

Recognizing things that you cannot times of great stress or adversity, it's always best to keep busy, to plow change. ... 

Making changes to help reduce your anger and frustration.☺️

I usually give people more chances than they deserve but once I'm done, I'm done. A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves u a hundred moments of regret. The hardest walk is walking alone, but it's also the walk that makes u the strongest.There are things we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn & people we can't live without but have to let go.There comes a tym to Stop trying to make things right with people that won't open their part in what went wrong.The bad thing about feeling numb is there'll be come a tym when u will want to feel something but u won't know how to.Times of stress are also times that are signals for growth, & if we use adversity properly we can grow through .sometimes frustration make us emotionless.we don't know how to react or express ourselves.Do good for others, it will come back in unexpected ways.Be selective in your battles, sometimes peace is better than being Death is not a greater loss in lyf ...the greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.By saying on top of your reactions.u will be able to develop patience & tolerance; twó distinct traits required for achieving long term sucess. If u are patient in one moment of anger, u will escape a hundred days of sorrows. 🙂🙃Mostly more expectations lead to more frustrations. In reality, I get tired ,I get frustrated. sometimes I feel like giving up. but how I feel doesn't determine what I'm going to do. Stop  expecting from others, everytime.☺️

Start Recognizing Yourself

Keep taking time for yourself until you are you again.To recognize yourself in a character On-screen and to connect with them, you gotta recognize their flaws  they gotta feel like a real person. It was so easy to disown what you couldn't recognize, to keep yourself apart from the things that were foreign and unsettling. The only person you can be sure you control always is yourself. Which is a lot to be sure of, but at the same time time not enough. Being strong doesn't always mean you have to fight the battle. True strength is being adult enough to walk away from the nonsense with your head held high. Usually stress happens when you try to control your life experiences. Relax and remember the only real control you have is over yourself. If you compare yourself to others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there be a greater and lesser persons than yourself. Your mind can never allow self acceptance, since it is by nature self contradictory and divisive. The best revenge is to have enough self worth not to seek it. The biggest source of motivation are your own thoughts, so think big and motivate yourself to win. You have been criticizing yourself for years, try to approve yourself and see what happens. I hope you love yourself enough to recognise the things you don't like about your life and i hope you find the courage to change them. Just live your purpose, express your truth, share your love. Enjoy your dreams, walk your talk, cherrish your blessings and make today  the best day of your life so far. Breathe..let go and remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure...☺️🤞🏻

Worst Feeling When Nobody understands

The worst Feeling ever in the life is when nobody tries to understand us and expect us to understand them. No one put some of their time  to even understand you. Sometimes, the only person who understands you is yourself. Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know you , but there are very few people who understand you. You can' make everyone feel and think as deeply as you do. This is your tragedy', because you understand them, but they don't understand you. You keep a lot to yourself but it is difficult to find the people who understand. A moment when you realise that no one is understand your weakness; your situations, your mind, your needs, your desires, your happiness or your sadness just except mirror. Sometimes its better to keep silent than to tell others What you feel. Because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you, but can't understand. Don't judge a person without full understanding of situations. But because you don't agree, doesn't mean that you are right. Literally, most people do not listen with the intent to understand  but with the intent to reply. I feel as if I'm made to understand but not to be understood. People who don't understand your silence can never understand your words. I understood now that I'm not a mess but a deeply feeling person in a messy world i explain that now, when someone asks me why  i cry so often, for the same reson i laugh so often- because I'm paying attention.  Sometimes the people around you won't understand your journey. They don't need to. Its not for them...

Appreciate yourself

The moment you started appreciating yourself will be the moment  when this universe  will fall in love with you. Beauty begins with the moment you decided to be yourself. The trick is that as long as you know who you are and what makes you happy it doesn't matter how others see you. It's not always a matter of letting go, instead of this one must say, 'let it be'. Be proud of every step you take, don't wait until you reach your goal .No matter how it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggles changed your life for the better. Take the responsibility of your own happiness, never put it in others people hands. when you accept responsibility for everything in your life, you gain the power to change anything in your life. Some people will always distract you, judge you and criticize you let them do their work as no matter what you do, people will always talk about you, someone will always question your judgement, someone will always doubt you. so just smile and make the choices you can live with. surround yourself with tacos not with negativity. The power to change your life lies in the simplest of steps. when you stop loving your life based on what others think of your real life begins at that moment, you will finally see the door of self acceptance opened.The biitter truth is that not everyone will appreciate for what you do for them. you have to figure out who is worthing your kindness and who is just taking the advantage. sometimes you just  have to appreciate where you are. you have come a long way and you are still learning and growing. Be proud of yourself.☺️

Be The Best Version of yourself

Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming better than you are. It is not as much about who you used to be, as it about who choose to be. Don't compare yourself to others. Compare yourself to the person from yesterday. Your greatest responsibility in your life is to be the best version of yourself. when you feel for what the soul believes that is who you become. For me,last year was  the toughest year, but I learned a lot about myself and I'm greatful for that. I'm at that stage of my life where I don't need to impress anyone. if you like me as I'm perfect. if not, adios. My goal is not to be better than  anyone else but better than I used to be. when you are living the best version of yourself, you inspired others to live the best version of themselves. I'm in the process of making the best version of myself. live life to the fullest because it only happens once. As long as you are being true to yourself, you will always find happiness. Becoming the best version of yourself means getting back to your quintessential self. To approach your essential self, you must turn away from distracting false beliefs that cloud or distort your self-perception. If you're feeling anxious about self-improvement, remember: every person is completely unique. We should always try to find  something unique in ourselves. Never underestimate yourself and your dignity on the basis of anyone's opinion. Be a witness not judge, focus on yourself not on others, listen to your heart and not to crowd. The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. The easiest path to staying true to what you  believe in  is not always the  easiest path to be on ...

Learn To Neglect

Learning to ignore things is one of the great paths🛤️ to inner peace🕊️. To find 🔍peace sometimes you have to be willing to use your connection🔗 with the people, place and things that create all the noise🔊 in your life.Be selective with your battles. sometimes peace is better than being right. One of the most important and rewarding🎖️ moments in life is the moment you finally find the courage to let go of what you can't change. Use disappointment and frustration😤 to motivate you rather than annoy💢 you. Be mindful you are in control of the way you to respond to life. Train your mind🧠 to see 👀good in everything. positivity is a choice. The happiness😊 of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts💭. The problem is not the problem. The problem is the incredible amount of overthinking you're doing with the problem. Let it go and be free. Do your best, then adopt a"whatever happens, happens" mindset . Don't try to force things. just let go and allow the right blessings😇 to flow. Rather than ignorance sometimes forgiveness is also important. It takes a strong 💪person to say sorry and even stronger person to forgive. Remember, Not every sorry deserves an ' it's okay ' in return. Life had taught many lessons to me but I don't feel sad now. I realised that some people will never understands me , my decisions. Everything is not in my hands. And now I assume every situation as a challenge and  opportunity in my life.Now, I don't care what people think about me as I can't stop them from thinking. This time⏰I learn to ignore the things, as in actuality life becomes more lighter☄️ than you actually wanted it.

Without Commitment Nothing Happens

Commitment usually defines our choices, and power of making decisions. It's hard to make a choice. Many times we find difficulties or getting nervous or confused while making our own commitments.The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor. Commitment is what transforms a promise into a reality.You need to make a commitment, and once you make it, then life will give you some answers. According to me, bad decision doesn't always leads to regretness but it also makes us morally stands.Commitment is the foundation of great accomplishments. life is like a multiple choice question, sometimes the choice confuse yoú, not the question itself. you don't have to defend or explain your decision to anyone, it's your life, live it without fear. stop looking for people's approval for everything, sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best thing that will ever happen to us. with our thoughts we make the world. The more choices that yóu are forced to make alone, the more you are aware of your freedom to choose. stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach.you can't have depth in anything unless you aren't committed. Remember, your words have the power to heal or destroy,so use them wisely. The words you say can only be forgiven not forgotten. Time playa an important role in almost every decision and some decisions define your attitude about time. your life changes the moment you make a new, congruent and committed decision. Things won't get better unless you think better!!!

Sob Soul With Agonizing Heart

Everyone has two eyes👀 but no one has a same view ! The eyes are useless when the mind🧠 is blind. your eyes speak the truth when everything else is a lie. Always learn to see the truth from your own eyes never believe anything someone else tells you. The prettiest smile☺️hide the deepiest secrets. The prettiest eyes👀 have cried the most tears.😭 And the kindest hearts❤️ have felt the most pain.😫 Sometimes, crying is the only way your eyes speak when your mouth can't explain how broken your heart💔 is. If you never heal from what hurt you, then you will bleed on people who didn't cut you. Give yourself the time⏳from the challenge you have been dealt.  It's all in the eyes, I was once told A smile isn't genuine  unless the eyes smiles too, and words mean nothing unless the eyes speak them too. perhaps, our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in awhile, so that we can see the life with a clearer view again. Real tears are not those that fall from the eyes and cover the face but those that fall from heart and cover the sóul💗. Remember, the soul would have no rainbow🌈if the eyes has no tears.when our heart can't handle too much pain it  turns into tears. The saddest😔 thing in life is that when when you are feeling real down you look around and realize that there is no shoulder for you. If you hear people from my past speak of me. keep in mind that  they are speaking of a person they don't even know anymore. I can't cry anymore I feel the need  but the tears don't come. I spent too much time telling myself not to be  weak😟and now I'm too hard. Never apologize for saying what you feel. That's like saying sorry for being real...

Your Character Elucidates Who You Are.

our behaviour and attitude😎 towards life usually justify our character. Thoughts💭 become words📖,words become actions🎬, actions become habits😊, habits become our character🎭 and our character becomes our destiny📈.You express the truth of your character with the choice of your actions🎬. The world 🌍is changed by your example not by your opinion. Your character will be what yóu yourself choose to make it. You are the main character in your story📖, remember this. you are the architect of your own happiness😊, everyone else is simply a visitors. Surely my life is an open book📓 , but don't judge me my syllabus , first read📨 my whole character to make a judgement. Stop✋judging people's character.you don't know what it took someone to get out of bed🛌, look and feel 💟presentable as possible and face the day⛅. you never truly know the daily struggles of others. Reminisce that real richness🤑is when you are so expensive that no one can buy🛒your character. It's your thoughts and character makes you complete not any person or thing. Your knowledge will give you power 🔋but your character will give you respect🙂. Never judge someone's character based on the words of another. Instead study the motives behind the words of person casting bad judgements. Accordingly thinking is difficult that's why most people judge.The secret is to reserve judgment and take your time⏲️. Observe them in certain situations; look at how they react. Listen👂to them talking🗣️, joking🤣, laughing😆, explaining🤷‍♂️, complaining👭, blaming👫, praising🙌, ranting😤, and preaching🕍. Only then will you be able to judge their character. Your character is formed by the challenges you face and overcome. It takes a long time to built a good character but takes a second to ruin it. Live in such a way that if someone spoke badly of you no one would believe it. !!!☺️

Ego Trip: A Journey To Nowhere.

Ego is to the true self what a flashlight is to a spotlight.Your ego is your soul’s💗 worst enemy.One study 📓found that healthy doses of ego directly feed into your willpower, which means, it might help you stick to a diet or focus on a major project, for example. An ego can also help you stay resilient when things go wrong❎. When deployed properly, an ego can also help us grow. Never blame yourself for other's people ego. In reality human beings have ego of their knowledge but they don't have knowledge of their ego. Now, Paying attention towards the difference between attitude and ego. our attitude makes us different from others while our ego makes us alone from others. when you allow your ego to control your thoughts, everything you believe becomes an illusion. Explain your anger😠, don't express it and you will immediately open the door🚪 to solutions instead of arguments. Never try to dominate the one who says sorry to you for their mistakes because, they understand that you are important than their ego.After realizing many things in my life I understand that I have no time⏱️ to battle egos and small minds🧠. Shoes👞 and people🎎, if they hurt 😔you, they are not of your size. When you notice your ego creating drama, ask yourself what am I avoiding in this moment. Our ego in sucess should never go to brain 🤯 and depression in failure should never go to heart❤️. True intelligence isn't controlled by ego. you must be able to change your mind when presented with information📝 that contradicts your beliefs. Remember that ego never accepts truth. Now this is what an ego is. This is with me also, I don't respect those who don't respect me. you call it my ego but I call it my self respect. our ego can neither satisfied us nor make us happy☺️ and successful in life. Most of the times, ego is responsible for destroying any relationship. So, keep your 'e ' asíde and let it ' go '. Moving towards ego can be resulted in extirpate.

When misunderstandings grow cut your ego.Do things that feed your soul, not your ego and you will be happy.☺️

Endeavor Hard To Become Self Sufficient

The greatest thing in the world 🌍is to know how to belong to oneself. The best day⛅ of your life is the one  you which decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses . Noone to lean on, rely on, or blame. you alone are responsible for the quality of it. Increase Your Self-Esteem. Sometimes becoming more self-sufficient means you need to look deep inside yourself. we must learn to be more assertive. But seriously I don't know why in today's world people are not satisfied with whatever they have ? why they are not making themselves self sufficient ?  

The explaination for this is the unwanted expectations of people. As their consumption is limitless. They are running⛹️ after wrong things, and are having unnecessarily expectations from lífe. even though, they have enough but still they demand more and more. Their consumptions and expectations never ends. Being a work in progress is a wonderful thing. it means that you are never finished.which means that you always have the chance to improve yourself and become something and someone better than who you are already. one should memorialize that life is the art of drawing sufficient conclusions from insufficient premises. Ask yourself what is really important and then have the courage to build your home 🏠and life around that answer. we must determined to take advantage of  change, making the most of opportunities it presents. I'm looking forward to being, old to be able to accept what I am and become Self Sufficient. The greatest thing in this world is to know how to be self sufficient. I have always been better of caring for others then I have been at caring for myself but in these later years, I have made progress.Don't be disappointed if people  refuse to help you. Remember the words📃 of Einsteine," I'm thankful to all those who said 'No'. because of them, I did it myself." I don't expect you to agree with everything I say but I do expect you to know  that i  have my own view of things.  I don't depend upon on anyone to feed me. when I needed I am capable  of attaining even happiness😊 is something I can get on my own.  The art🎨 of being happy is to be satisfied with what you have. Satisfied life is better than successful life. Because our success is measured📏 by others, but our satisfaction is measured by our own soul💗, mind🧠 and heart.♥️ Today,  I'm self sufficient and that makes me unbeatable.☺️

My Life Is A Song For You

Music has the  power to express our feelings when we are sad😔 or happy😊.Lyrics of every song🎵 have a direct connection with our heart❤️and soul💗. You love your favorite song because it’s associated with an intense emotional experience in your life. Have you ever wondered about the story behind a song? Write about it. Choose a song that intrigues you, listen to it, and dig into the lyrics🎼. Who are the characters behind those lyrics? What’s their situation? What challenges are they facing? Don’t try to recreate the song in prose; try to imagine the people 👥and circumstances behind it. Music itself have a magic🎩 to take your mind 🧠off everything. We all hear music but in reality few of us can feel it.  Music is what feelings sound🔊 like. For me, music is an ideology not something that comforts or distracts  me. Music can heal my wounds that medicine cannot touch. For me, it's a magic key🗝️ to which the most tightly closed heart ❤️opens. Usually I motivate myself through music🎶by listening to uplifting track and songs about success and I can't help but want to work harder. The power of music makes all the differenceto me with inspiration and motivation throughout the day.  It gives soul to universe♻️,wings to mind👼, flight to imagination✈️ and life to everything 🥰.you have to risk going too far  to discover just how far you can really go same as you want to  understand it's lyrics deeply and imagine what the next line is. Music expresses that which can't be said and which it is impossible to be silent🤐

 yes, for me music is a vehicle to  bring out pain😫 to the surface getting it back to that humble and tender spot where, with luck🤞🏻, it can loose its anger😠 and become compassion again😊. Dear music, thank you for always clearing my head, healing my heart, and lifting my spirit.👻

Converting Self Doubt Into Self Belief

 Self-doubt occurs when we lack confidence or feel incapable of doing things we need to do. People who doubt about themselves experience uncertainty around things they can't control or worry about things not going according to plan.How many of you have doubted yourself at the smallest things in life. How many of you have really felt low as per the societies standard. I'm sure many of us.And do you know what, there are few people who  goes through these situations on their daily basis. we all have same time but our situations are different. Acknowledge it. Admit that self-doubt is what's going on, so that you can deal with it head-on. ...

Focus on your “why.” It's not just about you, it's about your why and what you're on a mission to do, who you desire to help. Think about why building your business is important to you!. If you can remove your self-doubt and believe in yourself, you can achieve what you never thought possible. “The greater the artist, the greater the doubt. Perfect confidence is granted to the less talented as a consolation prize."Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will. Self love, self respect, self worth all starts with self. Stop looking outside of yourself for your value.Confidence is the most beautiful thing you can possess. Erase self doubt by working to built your strength instead of focusing on your weakness.we all have self doubt don't deny it. but you also don't capitulate to it. you embrace it. Analyse that doubl is a virus that attacks our self esteem, productivity and confidence.where as  have faith that you and your life are perfectly unfolding is the strongest vaccine. Remind yourself that you can't fail at being yourself.

Patience Is The Companion Of Wisdom

Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.One minute of patience, ten years of peace.With love and patience, nothing is impossible. Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. Inner peace is impossible without patience. wisdom requires patience. spiritual growth implies the mastery of patience. patience  allows the unfolding of destiny to proceed at it's won unhurried pace. We must understand how to be patient in the midst of hard circumstances, and can continue to be personally effective while living through whatever discouragements beset us and our companion. Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Don't Loos courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about redemying them - everyday begin the task anew. Be patient, things are charging for better though it doesn't feel that way. Sometimes what a person needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks, but patient heart that listens Most of us think that patience is a sign of weakness, I think this is a mistake. It is anger that is a sign of weakness, where patience is a sign of strength. Remember that patience and silence are the two powerful energies. patience makes you mentally strong, silence makes you emotionally strong. learning patience can be a difficult experience, but once conquered you will find life easier. sometimes when I'm quite it's because I need to fingure myself out. It's not because I don't want to talk. sometimes there are no words for my thoughts. I don't regret the things I have done. I regret the things I didn't do when I had a chance. you can't expect miracles to happen overnight. Be patient, be loving and little by little the change you seek will come. Sometimes the prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets and the kindest heart have felt the most pain. One moment of patience may ward off great disaster whereas one moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.Patience is a calm acceptance and one of the hardest things in life to learn are which bridges to cross and which bridges to burn. learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had. Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in low time. Never makes your most important decisions when you are in worst moods. Wait - Be patient. The storm will pass and the spring will come!!!🥰

Spirituality: True Self Respect Brings Inner Peace. ...

Self respect comes from  being able to define the world in your own terms and refusing  to abide by the judgements of others. To free ourselves from the expectations of others , to give us back to ourselves there lies the great , the singular power of self respect. Know your worth, know when you have had enough and move on from the people who keep chipping away at your happiness. To love yourself right from now, just as you are , is to give yourself heaven. Don't wait until you die. If you wait you die now , if you love, you live now. Don't ever dumb yourself down just to make someone else feel comfortable. Keep a little bit of attitude in your pocket. Don't use it to hurt others but use it when your self respect is being tested by other person.  Try not to take the things personally; what people say about you is a reflection of them, not yours. The way you treat yourself sets the standards for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect. The moment you start going out of your way to beg someone for their attention, you devalue your self worth. Don't let your loyalty become slavery.know when you let go and never compromise on self respect. Remember, life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. If someone treates you like an option, leave them like a choice. Having self-respect helps others to see and treat you with dignity and worth. Often the backbone of self-respect is knowing your values and living by them. Having self-respect often means that you need to stand by your character and be willing to defend your values and actions. One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself. If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect you will compel others to respect you.😊

Stop Being Too Nice

In today's world it's necessary to put yourself first than anyone else. Don't just be good to others.be good to yourself too.Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behaviour decides who stays in your life. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters  to you. 

I have learned that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings. even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't guarantee that others will be good people too. you only have control over yourself on how you choose to be as person.And for the others ,  you can be only choose to accept them or walk away.Sometimes I regret being nice , apologizing when didn't do anything wrong , and for making unworthy people a priority in my life.😔.Sometimes you have to do what's better for you and your life, and not what's best  for everybody else. According to the Power of Positivity, when you are being too nice to others, you develop unrealistic expectations for them to do the same. When they do not meet these expectations, you may become angry and resentful. I have noticed this in my own life.Nothing is too great or too good to be true. Do not believe that we can imagine things better than they are. In the long run, in the ultimate outlook, in the eye of the Creator, the possibilities of existence, the possibilities open to us, are beyond our imagination. Sometimes you have to suffer in life, not because you were bad , but  because you didn't realize where or when to stop being good. Everything in your life is a reflection of a choice you have made. if you want a different result make a different choice.

Thus, don't take anyone's ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be.Don't depend too much on anyone in this world. even your shadow leaves you when you are in the darkness.☺️🤞🏻

Life Is A Game

Life is a game, where either you lose or you learn. It gives us many opportunities and we should make a perfect utilisation of it. The two most important days in our life are the day we born  and the day we find out why. If  you really want to do something. you'll find a way. If you don't you'll find an excuse. Sometimes we are so busy doubting ourselves. while so many others are intimidated by our potential. you will never be criticized by a person who is doing more than you. You'll only be criticized by someone who is doing less. It's necessary to draw your attention towards challenges, because it's make life interesting and  overcoming them is what makes life meaningful. Don't be too honest in the world, because straight trees are always choosen for cutting!!! . Don't get upset with the people or situations as both are powerless without our reactions. In life it's important to know when to stop arguing with people and simply let them be wrong. I neither paint my dreams nor my nightmares.I just paint my own reality. Remember that it's very easy to defeat someone but it's very difficult to win someone. Never change your originality for the sake of others, because no one can play your role better than you. There are no limits what you can accomplish, except the limits you place on your own thinking. Don't sacrifice your peace pointing out someone's true colour as  lack of character always reveals itself in the end. Sometimes you just have to die a little inside in order to be reborn and rise again as a stronger and wiser version of you. Don't ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday.Let it go. Learn to trust the journey, even when you don't understand it. when life gives you a hundred reasons to break down and cry, show life that you have a million reasons to smile and laugh. Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. ...If life were predictable it would cease to be life, and be without flavor.so, encourage yourself to overcome and accept the challenges in your life.😊

Distance yourself from sadness

One of the most courageous decision u will  ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart & soul. sometimes u need to be alone.not to be lonely but , to enjoy your free tym being u & yourself. when u feel worried & depressed, consciously form a smile on your face & act upbeat until the happy feeling becomes genuine.as the light begins to intensify, so does my misery & I wonder how it is possible to hurt so much when nothing is wrong. sometimes lyf doesn't gives u something u want, not bcoz u don't deserve it , but bcoz u deserve more. when we are ready to make positive changes in our lives, we attract whatever we need to help us.we must understand that sadness is an ocean, sometimes we drown , while other days we are forced to swim. Sadness often leads to depression but happiness leads to increase in the  life expectancy.we have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what u got & remember what u had . Always forgive but never forget, learn from your mistakes but never regret. Always remember that it's better to forget & smile than to remember & be sad . It's ironic, how we offen the things worth remembering, but remember the things worth forgetting. The best feeling of happiness is when u are happy bcoz u have made somebody else happy😊. Usually beautiful things happen only when u distance yourself from the negative. Doing what u like is freedom & liking what u do is happiness. Two possibilities exist ; either we are alone in the universe or we are not. both are equally terrifying. It's better to live your lyf in your own way.  In the end, people will judge u anyway . Don't live your lyf impressing others, live your life impressing yourself.🥰🥰🥰

Always Take A Stand Up For Yourself

Thinking for yourself & making your own decisions can be frightening. Letting go of other people’s expectations can leave u feeling empty for a tym. & yet seeing yourself as an independent adult who can stand up for your own choices frees you to accept yourself as you are. Formal education teaches how to stand, but to see the rainbow you must come out and walk many steps on your own. Remember that always take a stand for yourself, your values. you're defined by what u stand for. It's easy to stand with the crowd but it takes courage to stand alone. If u want light to come into your lyf , u need to stand where it is shining.All u can change is yourself, but sometimes that changes everything! If u don't go after what u won't, ull never have it.if u don't ask, the answer is always no if u don't step forward , u are always on the same place.I not only have the right to stand up for myself, but I have responsibility.i can't ask somebody else to stand up for me if I won't stand up for myself & once u stand up for yourself, you'd be surprised that people say, 'can I be of help' ? strong people stand up for themselves  but stronger people stand up for others. The moment that u start to wonder  if u deserve better, u do. U need to learn to stand up for yourself & what u believe . Being able to admit u are wrong is important but so is standing up for yourself when u are right. sometimes u just need to disconnect & enjoy your own company. Stand for what is right even it means standing alone. when u are Wong, admit it but when u are right , be quite.never search your happiness in others, it will make u feel alone. search in yourself u will feel happy even if u are left alone 😊

One's Personality

our attitude towards lyf determines lyfs attitude towards us.mañy of us thinks that compassion drains us, but I promise u it is something that truly enlivens us.lyf is so ironic, it takes sadness to know what happiness is, noise to appreciate silence & absence to value presence. An attitude of positive expectation is the mark is superior personality. I've trained myself to illuminate the things in my personality that are likable and to hide and protect the things that are less likeable.There is nothing more attractive than a great positive personality. Its beauty never fades away with time.  Personality is in the very intention of the evolution of life, and the human personality is just one mode in which this intention is realized. Ur personality should be impenetrable even to ourselves.   When people label you by saying that you have attitude.Just tell them that you have a personality which is unshakable and unaffected by what people say about you.  Personality is a mask you believe in. The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.never let yourself be a product of your , surroundings but encourage your surroundings to be a product of your personality. Train your mind to see gud in everything. positively is a choice.The happiness of your lyf depend on the quality of your thoughts.U must make the choice, to take the chance, if u want anything in lyf to change. light yourself on fire with passion & people will come from miles to watch u  burn.No matter how educated, rich , talented, or cool u believe u are , how to treate people ultimately tells all. Cutting people from your lyf doesn't mean you hate them , it simply means that u respect yourself. Imagine a new story of your lyf & start living it.My personality is who I'm, & my attitude depend on how u treate me.😊

Be Selfish

One of the greatest challenges in lyf is being yourself in a world that's trying to make you like everyone else.The hard thing is, you try to help them but still you're the bad one.It is during the worst times of your lyf that u will get to see the true colours of the people who say they care for u. Take tym to give.....it is , too short a day to be selfish. Be careful who u shares your weakness with . some people can't wait for the opportunity to use them against u. Learn to carry yourself on your own back. people will drop u quicker than they picked u up. sometimes u have to be selfish & just make yourself happy😊. By all means be selfish : the right way , wish yourself well , labour at what is gud for u. destroy all that stands between u & happiness .be all;love all;be happy;make happy.sometimes u don't realize u are actually drowning when u try to be everyone else anchor. I used to think that being selfish was bad, but sometimes u care so much for others that u forget about yourself.Make yourself a priority once in a while , it's not selfish it's necessary.Have some ego bcoz people with no ego will be treated merely like fools.If u have the power to make someone happy today , do it . the world needs more of them. u either get better or u get bitter . it's simple. u either take what has been dealt to u & allow it to make u a better person or u allow it  to tear u down . the choice doesn't belongs to fate , it belongs to u. loving yourself doesn't mean being self absorbed or disregarding others rather than it means welcoming yourself as the most common guest in your own heart, a guest worthy of respect , a lovable companion. plz do yourself a favour. don't lower your standards to fit in. don't shrink who u are to make others comfortable. do find and surround yourself with the people who like u just the way u are & encourage u to keep remember that one day u will stand up for yourself & raise the standard of your lyf, that one day u will say to yourself -"enough with this bullshit ".U might as well make today that day.😊 

Life Is A matter Of Perspective

Lyf is matter of perspective.There are many people who may know you,but there are very few people who understand who you are.The greatest bliss is being able to sit alone & be completely at peace. needing no-one, needing nothing.lyf is a book.some chapters are sad, some chapters are happy & some are exciting.but if u never turn the page you'll never know what the next chapter holds. people don't appreciate you or know your value until you're gone.stop expecting loyalty from the people who can't even give u honesty.be a gud person,but don't waste your time trying to prove heavy hearts like heavy cloud in sky are best relieved by the letting of a little Always remember that you are  braver than you believe,and stronger than you seem, & smarter than you think.Be with those who tries to bring best in you,not the stress in people will always notice the change in your attitude towards  but theyll never notice it's their behaviour that made you change. The worst feeling ever is when you're crying in silence bcoz  u don't want anyone to know u are. Never regret being a gud person, to the wrong people, your behaviour says everything about u & their behaviour says enough about them.When everything seems to be going against you , remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it. Don't feel low when someone double your caliber.just be proud of yourself bcoz people always doubt the 'gold' for it's purity not the 'iron'.

A Meaningful Silence

Silence is a true friend who never betrays. Don't underestimate me . I know more that I say, think more than I speak & notice more than you realise sometimes I want to treat people how they treat me but I can't bcoz it's not my character.just bcoz I don't say anything doesn't mean that I don't know what's going on.. my silence is my self defence.i don't think I'm bad .if you talk to people who know me, you don't hear bad things.have I made mistakes ? sure, but I venture to say most people have. I'm sincerely sorry about them. & I try to fix them. that's lyf.😊

Every hearts sing a song , late at night. some dares to write while some bleed through their eyes. I don't know who am I,but when tears in my eyes I know I'm still alive to write. what is burning me inside. Don't judge my story by the chapters you walk in on.you don't know me !!! you only know what I want you to know.sometimes the best you can do is just remain silent bcoz no words can explain the battle that's going on in your heart & mind.My silence doesn't always means YES sometimes it's mean - I'm tired of explaining myself to people who don't even care to understand.I'm thankful for difficult people in my lyf for they have shown me exactly who I don't want to be.one day you'll look back & realise that you worried too much about things that don't really matters.some people think I'm unhappy but I'm not. I just appreciate silence in the world that never stops talking.silence isn't empty it's full of answers  in end I wish to say that - 

Never let a bad situation brings out the worst in you . choose to stay positive.& be the strong person that God created you to be ! 😇😇😇

Tired Of Explaining Myself

The most difficult phrase of lyf is not when no one understands you, it's when you don't understand yourself. Don't be confused between what people say you are & who you know you sometimes you just need to distance yourself to see more clearly.Be yourself no matter what, someone will adore you & some will hate everything about you. 😇 but who cares ? it's your lyf.Make the most out of it.you gotta a train your mind your mind to be stronger than your emotions or else you'll loose yourself everytime.Not caring what other people think is the best choice you will ever Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.i stop explaining myself when I realised that people understand from their level of perception. Never explain yourself to anyone. Sometimes you just need  distance yourself from people if they care they will notice, if they don't you know where you stand.If you wanted to be respected start with yourself.

So here are three reasons you should stop explaining yourself. You are basing your self-worth on others' evaluations. Trying to convince others that what you are doing is worthy is like trying to recruit a cheering squad. Your actions don't need a pep rall.

“If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed.” “Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.” “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”

Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone🥰 In end , I want to say that stop explaining yourself, start expressing yourself; people will not only understand what you can do but also believe in you who you are.you owe no one any explanation of what you do .

👉🏻 your lyf is yours not theirs .👈🏻

Self Love

Best way to live your life is to love & respect yourself first🥰 To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. To love yourself is to know that your post doesn't change your worth. Don't waste words on the people who deserve your silence. sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all, Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we'll ever do.

Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.

Be yourself. ...

You can't pour from an empty cup.

One day i woke up and realised I was not made for anyone, I was made for me. I am my own.

More items...You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.

Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.

I am accepting myself unconditionally no matter what. When I accept myself just as I am, i am freed from the burden of needing you accept me. No one is you and that is your power. Regardless of how anyone else feels about me, I am going to choos. My frndz start loving yourself & keep smiling, bcoz lyf is a beautiful thing & there's so much to smile about.😊

value of SMILE

our smiles worth a lot. if u sees a person without a smile then give one of yours 😊lyf is short my frndz so enjoy every moment of your life 😇. Stop wasting your tym on the people in whose lyf u matters nothing. Don't make your smile a limited edition for u. Be happy whatever u have. Never regret for anything in your life my dear frndz as we all have heard "something is better than nothing"😊